Lexie, my Kindergartner

Monday, July 14th marked Lexie's first official day as a Kindergartner...how did this happen?  And better yet where did the time go?  I remember how I foolishly thought when she was a baby and I was trying to juggle child care and work how much easier it would be when she went to elementary school and also at the time how long almost 6 years seemed.  Was I ever wrong!

One of the things I love most about Lexie is her fearlessness of new social situations.  I don't think I have ever seen her intimidated to go to a new place or to make new friends.  Whether we are at the park or the pool she always manages to make a "friend."  I wish this came as easily to me as it does her.  I truly admire her confidence.  

While Lexie was sad to leave Mud Creek Preschool (the wonderful place she's been 5 mornings a week since she was 4 months old) she was beyond excited to start Kindergarten.  For weeks she has been counting down the days, asking when it would be time to go.  And don't even get me started on this sense of being a "big girl" which has graced our presence since Preschool Graduation!  No tears for my big girl, but mommy certainly had a few.

Really since April, when we went to the Kindergarten Readiness Rally, her excitement has grown by the day. At the rally she got to meet potential teachers from each of the elementary schools, practice going through the lunch line, making crafts, playing games and generally just showing the kids kindergarten was going to be fun.  Here she is with two of her friends,  Emory and Maddie, just look how excited the 3 of them are!

Then in May, her new elementary school hosted an ice cream social where all the kids learned what a day in the life of a kindergartner at Hendersonville Elementary School would be like.  This is where Lexie also got to meet the 3 potential teachers.  It's at this event she made her decision to hope for Mrs. Shaffer.  Why her?  You're going to love this...because she was wearing pink pants and because she liked the sound of her voice! 

Tuesday, the week before school started, we learned her teacher would be Mrs. Shandeval.  Her heart broke a little, but as we were leaving meet the teacher Friday morning she said "Mommy, I think I'm really going to like my new teacher."  Then when I picked her up from school Monday afternoon, the first response when asked about her day was, "I really love my teachers!"

But wait...I forgot about Thursday night, when we arrived home after a parent meeting at the school we were greeted with this awesome sign and bear paw sticker for our car courtesy of the HES PTO.  Talk about instilling a sense of school pride and getting the kids excited to be going, this school seems to have it nailed!    

Fun Memories From the First Weeks

• On the first day my brave little girl didn't want her parent's to walk her in, but we insisted we accompany her on this rite of passage.
• When I asked her what she learned on the first day her response, "Well, I didn't learn to read."  I think she has this notion that learning to read will happen after just one day!  I'm just glad she is eager to learn new things.  
• Wednesday morning (day #2) she insisted on being dropped off in the car rider line, but with Mommy still nervous and against Lexie's request I parked and walked her in once again.  Let's just say she was none too happy!  But come Thursday morning she was bubbling over with excitement to walk in all by herself.
• Friday morning I needed to stay for a meeting first thing, which meant I needed to park.  So I told her I would walk in with her.  Lexie suggested I wait at the end of the hallway and then could walk down and past her classroom to the library once she got settled in her class.  Already embarrassed of Mom?!?!?!  I told her no way, we'll walk in together!  
• When we got the lunch menu and saw they were serving chicken nuggets on the first day, Lexie decided she would buy lunch.  But then after talking to "Uncle" Zach the night before, who might have mentioned that in school chicken nuggets were actually ring shaped (although he insisted they were quite good) she woke up Monday morning begging for me to pack instead.  Monday's lunch was in fact regular chicken nuggets, but what's even better is when chicken rings were served the next week of school, Lexie came home saying she wished she had bought lunch instead because they looked so good!
• 2 weeks into school I get a note from the cafeteria informing me my child had run up a charge of $3.50 and could I please pay her balance ASAP.  I was mortified, why did she have a balance?  She had only bought lunch once, for which I sent in exact change.  Trey asked her was she buying lunch and not telling us, she insisted no.  A few minutes later it hit him...chocolate milk!  Apparently she had decided to treat herself to chocolate milk with her lunch every day.  She didn't realize she needed to ask us to give her money for the milk, nor had she thought to confess to the chocolate milk indulgence!
• Mrs. Schandevel is using Letterland phonics and has Lexie convinced this is a real place, one she has been to before, and one which Lexie desperately wants to visit!  It's really precious!
• She is also getting much better at drawing people figures, and has learned to write her name using a capital letter along with lowercase letters.  Before school started she could write lots of words, but always only used uppercase.
• On a sad note, Addie has had a really hard time adjusting to Lexie being gone.  She misses her and the first few weeks have been very difficult.  She has been acting out but then completely ignores Lexie when she gets home.  I think she feels abandoned, but we have been explaining it isn't Lexie's fault she isn't around and it isn't nice to punish her by not speaking or playing with her.  It's now week 3 and things are getting a little bit better with Addie.  Thank goodness!  These two girls love each other so much and it was breaking our hearts to see so much tension between the two!

I'm so proud of how well Lexie has adjusted to Kindergarten, I can only hope the rest of the year holds as much fun and excitement for her as the first 3 weeks of the year already have!